Sunday, November 9, 2008

Goodbye to a Friend

I found out I lost a friend today. I've run out of tears and my eyes are swollen and red. But this isn't about me. Rather than dwell on the loss, I want to share what a terrific person she was. I've known her for more than twenty years. We met on a professional level (she patronized a business I used to own), but we considered each other friends. Up until a week ago, we spent a couple hours together about once a month.
Like me, she was the youngest of three sisters. Her faith was more important to her than nearly anything and late in life, she found her soul mate at church. They married a decade ago and she'd been very happy with him. Her cats were like children to her and she brought them when she traveled. A lawyer and mediator, she never failed to offer me her expert advice free of charge. In fact, she drew up a will for me many years ago and refused to accept a dime for the work. She served on the board of a local charity recently and even worked on the staff of US Senator Lawton Chiles in her younger days.
We exchanged birthday and Christmas gifts each year and hers were always more than generous and well thought out. She gave me so much of my favorite jewelry and the packages coordinated with the gift. Her clothes and accessories (down to the color of her umbrella) were always perfectly matched. But more than anything else, I will forever cherish the time we shared, the world problems we solved between us and the warmth of her smile.
Roemy -- I'll miss you always.


Katie Reus said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, but it's wonderful you're holding on to all the good times :)

Dara Edmondson said...

Thanks, Katie.

Terry Odell said...

Pleasant memories in those we leave behind are the best legacy. Sorry for your loss.

Dara Edmondson said...

Thanks, Terry. Off to the funeral now.

jax said...

My heartfelt condolences. It's really tough to say goodbye to loved ones. I've lost several this past year so I can imagine the heartbreak.

This was a lovely post. Big hug and kiss.